{"content_id":"tbpldo0xvv","slug":"funeral-culture-family-funerals-and-public-support","locale":"en","schema_type":"Article","category":"knowledge_base","category_name":"Knowledge Base","title":"Family Funerals and Public Funeral Eligibility","summary":"Family funerals and funerals without a visitation room are funeral arrangements, while public funerals are a local government support program. A Japanese survey and Korean public guidance provide the basis for explaining what simplified funerals mean, the difference between lonely deaths and unclaimed deaths, and the conditions under which non-relatives can participate in funerals.","sponsorship_disclosure":null,"affiliate_disclosure":null,"commerce_disclosure":null,"author":{"name":"Injoys Editorial Team","url":"https://injoys.com/ko/about"},"key_points":["A family funeral limits who attends, while a funeral without a visitation room does not set up a space for mourners to pay their respects.","In a 2026 private survey in Japan, family funerals accounted for 47.0%, but that figure does not represent the proportion of funerals in Korea.","Lonely deaths are associated with social isolation and are not the same as unclaimed deaths.","Eligibility for public funeral support and the support provided must be checked against local government ordinances and program criteria.","People who had an ongoing friendship with a person whose death was unclaimed may also lead the funeral rites under certain conditions."],"content_markdown":"Changes in funeral customs can be understood as choices about how many people pay their respects and how to say goodbye. Family funerals and funerals without a visitation room are different choices. Public funeral support is a system for people who would have difficulty arranging a funeral. A quiet visitation room alone, however, is not enough to establish a nationwide change.\n\nThe funeral percentages are based on a March 2026 survey in Japan, and the solitary death figure is based on a 2024 count in Korea.\n\n## What it means to say funeral halls have become quieter\n\nThe atmosphere in a visitation room should be distinguished from changes in funeral customs nationwide. Seeing few visitors late at night reflects one funeral. It is not statistical proof that overnight visitation has declined across Korea.\n\nSimpler funerals do not represent just one kind of change. A family can limit attendance while retaining the placement of the deceased in the coffin and a farewell ceremony. They can also forgo a visitation room and set aside a separate time for remembrance.\n\nTo understand these changes, it helps to consider the following separately.\n\n- Who attends: which relatives, friends, and coworkers are notified\n- How visitors are received: how visitation hours and meals are arranged\n- Ceremonies: how placement in the coffin, religious rites, and time to say goodbye are arranged\n- Remembrance: how in-person attendance and online records are used together\n\nThere is no basis for judging the depth of grief by the number of visitors. Nor can every large funeral be dismissed as an event held for appearances. It is also difficult to conclude that smaller funerals are always more satisfying for bereaved families.\n\n## Comparing family funerals, funerals without a visitation room, and public funeral support\n\nFamily funerals and funerals without a visitation room describe ways of holding a funeral; public funeral support is a support system. They are not three products classified on the same basis. A funeral’s name alone does not determine its procedures or cost.\n\n| Category | What it generally means | What to check |\n| --- | --- | --- |\n| Family funeral | A funeral attended mainly by family and close contacts | Whether friends may attend, whether a visitation room will operate, and visitation hours |\n| Funeral without a visitation room | A funeral without a room for receiving visitors | Where the deceased will be kept, participation in placing the deceased in the coffin, time to say goodbye, and the transport schedule |\n| Public funeral support | A system through which a local government supports funerals for eligible people | Eligibility, what is covered, and decisions made by the responsible department |\n\nCalling a funeral a family funeral does not automatically exclude friends. A funeral without a visitation room does not mean every funeral procedure is omitted. Before signing a contract, check each part of the farewell you want.\n\nPlacing the deceased in the coffin is a funeral procedure. The funeral departure is when the deceased is taken from the funeral venue. Whether a visitation room will operate and how these procedures will be arranged are separate matters to discuss.\n\n## Changes shown by Japan’s family funeral survey\n\nFamily funerals were the most common type in a 2026 private survey in Japan. In Kamakura Shinsho’s (鎌倉新書) survey, they accounted for **47.0%**. This is the share of funerals held by survey respondents.\n\n| Survey year | Share of family funerals | Point to keep in mind |\n| --- | --- | --- |\n| 2024 | 50.0% | A private Japanese survey of people with experience as chief mourners |\n| 2026 | 47.0% | A follow-up in the same survey series |\n\nThe 2026 survey had 2,000 valid responses. Respondents were aged at least 40 and had served as chief mourners or had comparable experience within the past two years. The survey ran from February 27 to March 3, 2026. The results were released on May 12, 2026.\n\nThe share of family funerals fell by 3.0 percentage points between the two surveys. That differs from the claim that family funerals are continuing to increase. It is not a basis for predicting that Korea will follow the same path.\n\nThe survey cannot establish that large funeral halls have disappeared in Japan. It is also difficult to explain funeral choices through a single national characteristic. Changes in who attends and changes in the funeral facility industry need to be examined separately.\n\n## The difference between solitary deaths and unclaimed deaths\n\nA solitary death is a concept related to social isolation during a person’s life. An unclaimed death is a term used in the context of identifying relatives and handling arrangements after death. The categories can overlap, but they are not the same count.\n\n| Category | Main consideration | Interpretation to avoid |\n| --- | --- | --- |\n| Solitary death | Death in a state of social isolation, cut off from people around the person | Every death of someone who lived alone |\n| Unclaimed death | Circumstances after death, such as having no relatives or relatives who cannot be identified | Only people with no biological family at all |\n| Choice of a family funeral | A decision about who attends the funeral | Evidence of broken family ties or social isolation |\n\nAccording to a Ministry of Health and Welfare survey, there were **3,924** solitary deaths in 2024. This is not the number of unclaimed deaths. The same count can be found in a 2026 policy analysis by the Korea Institute for Health and Social Affairs.\n\nSeoul City’s funeral support guidance also covers cases in which bereaved family members refuse to claim the deceased’s body. This means public funeral support may be needed even when family members exist. But not every refusal can be explained by financial poverty.\n\nBefore stating the proportion of unclaimed decedents who have family members, the scope of the count must be checked. The denominator can differ by year and region. The unsourced figure of “7 out of 10” is difficult to use as the current nationwide proportion.\n\n## Public funeral support and conditions for friends to take part\n\nPublic funeral support is a system through which local governments support funerals for people who meet their criteria. Seoul City publishes information on support for unclaimed decedents and others. Specific eligibility and support arrangements must be checked against the rules in the relevant area.\n\nThe following is from Seoul City’s “Funeral Support for Unclaimed Decedents” guidance.\n\n\u003e We provide prescribed funeral arrangements for deceased people who have no relatives or whose relatives cannot be identified.\n\nSeoul City’s guidance was revised on March 26, 2026. Support includes placing the deceased in the coffin, transportation, cremation, placement of the remains, and funeral rites. The points of contact are the responsible district office department and the Public Funeral Counseling and Support Center.\n\n### Can someone other than a family member lead a funeral?\n\nFriends and others connected to an unclaimed decedent may be allowed to lead the funeral rites under certain conditions. The legal basis is Article 12(2) of the Act on Funeral Services, Etc. This can be checked through the Ministry of Government Legislation’s Easy-to-Find Practical Legal Information service.\n\nThe guidance lists the following relationships.\n\n- Someone who had a long-term, ongoing friendship with the deceased during their lifetime\n- Someone who took part in religious activities or social solidarity activities with the deceased\n- Someone the deceased designated during their lifetime in a signed document or a legally valid will\n\nHaving one of these relationships does not automatically grant authority to lead the funeral. The provision says a local government may allow such a person to lead the funeral rites. If you wish to take responsibility for the funeral, ask the responsible local department how to verify your relationship.\n\nThe title “honorary chief mourner” alone does not establish legal authority. Taking the role of chief mourner at a memorial event is different from being officially designated. For an actual case, check the process for designating the person responsible for the funeral.\n\n## The role and limits of online remembrance\n\nOnline remembrance lets people share memories without gathering in person. The Ministry of Health and Welfare has operated an online remembrance and graveside visit service. Its functions are described in a 2021 policy notice.\n\nThe notice at the time included features for uploading photos and memorial videos. It also described voice message recording and sharing among family members. This establishes that the service existed.\n\nThe existence of a service, however, does not establish that its use is widespread. A claim that metaverse graveside visits are common practice also needs separate evidence. Before using the service, check eHaneul’s current service guidance.\n\n- People who cannot attend in person: discuss ways to share memories online\n- Records the family will leave together: decide how to store photos, recordings, and letters\n- Access: distinguish materials shared within the family from those made public\n\n## Common mistakes when deciding on a funeral\n\nIt is common to hear the name of a funeral type and make mistaken assumptions about its cost and procedures. “Family funeral” and “funeral without a visitation room” are not substitutes for an itemized quote. You need to check whether the ceremonies you want are included.\n\n| Common assumption | What to check or correct |\n| --- | --- |\n| A family funeral has no visitation room | Who attends and whether a visitation room operates are separate matters |\n| A funeral without a visitation room has no farewell ceremony | How participation in placing the deceased in the coffin and time to say goodbye will actually be arranged |\n| A small funeral has a fixed total cost | What is included or excluded for keeping the deceased, transportation, supplies, and other items |\n| A solitary death is necessarily an unclaimed death | The difference between social isolation and identifying relatives |\n| Public funeral support is the same nationwide | The relevant local government’s eligibility and support criteria |\n| A friend immediately gains the authority of chief mourner | The conditions and administrative process for designating the person responsible for the funeral |\n\nIf you are preparing a funeral, check the following in order.\n\n1. Check any wishes or funeral instructions the deceased left.\n2. Discuss who will attend and how the visitation room will operate with family members and other relevant people.\n3. Decide which ceremonies to retain, then request an itemized quote.\n4. If public support is needed, consult the relevant local government first.\n5. Clearly state the confirmed visitation hours and who may attend in the funeral notice.\n\n## How to decide separately who attends and who can take part in mourning\n\nDeciding to limit attendance and deciding how to give people a chance to remember the deceased are separate matters. This is a practical way to consider family funerals alongside online remembrance. Even if you choose a small funeral, you can discuss separately how people close to the deceased can take part.\n\n| Decision | What to discuss |\n| --- | --- |\n| In-person attendance | Who will join in placing the deceased in the coffin or at the farewell |\n| Funeral notice | Who to notify before the funeral and who to inform afterward |\n| Memorial records | How to collect photos and memories of the deceased |\n| Responsibilities | Who will handle contact, administrative consultations, and the memorial |\n\nIf you want to leave funeral wishes, be more specific than “keep it simple.” You can state separately whether you want a visitation room. Also record whom you would like to say goodbye with. Keep in mind, however, that a record of your wishes is different from legally designating the person responsible for the funeral.","content_html":"\u003cp\u003eChanges in funeral customs can be understood as choices about how many people pay their respects and how to say goodbye. Family funerals and funerals without a visitation room are different choices. Public funeral support is a system for people who would have difficulty arranging a funeral. A quiet visitation room alone, however, is not enough to establish a nationwide change.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe funeral percentages are based on a March 2026 survey in Japan, and the solitary death figure is based on a 2024 count in Korea.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#what-it-means-to-say-funeral-halls-have-become-quieter\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"what-it-means-to-say-funeral-halls-have-become-quieter\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eWhat it means to say funeral halls have become quieter\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe atmosphere in a visitation room should be distinguished from changes in funeral customs nationwide. Seeing few visitors late at night reflects one funeral. It is not statistical proof that overnight visitation has declined across Korea.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSimpler funerals do not represent just one kind of change. A family can limit attendance while retaining the placement of the deceased in the coffin and a farewell ceremony. They can also forgo a visitation room and set aside a separate time for remembrance.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eTo understand these changes, it helps to consider the following separately.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eWho attends: which relatives, friends, and coworkers are notified\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eHow visitors are received: how visitation hours and meals are arranged\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCeremonies: how placement in the coffin, religious rites, and time to say goodbye are arranged\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRemembrance: how in-person attendance and online records are used together\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThere is no basis for judging the depth of grief by the number of visitors. Nor can every large funeral be dismissed as an event held for appearances. It is also difficult to conclude that smaller funerals are always more satisfying for bereaved families.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#comparing-family-funerals-funerals-without-a-visitation-room-and-public-funeral-support\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"comparing-family-funerals-funerals-without-a-visitation-room-and-public-funeral-support\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eComparing family funerals, funerals without a visitation room, and public funeral support\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFamily funerals and funerals without a visitation room describe ways of holding a funeral; public funeral support is a support system. They are not three products classified on the same basis. A funeral’s name alone does not determine its procedures or cost.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"overflow-x-auto\"\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\n\u003cthead\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eCategory\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eWhat it generally means\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eWhat to check\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/thead\u003e\n\u003ctbody\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Category\"\u003eFamily funeral\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What it generally means\"\u003eA funeral attended mainly by family and close contacts\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check\"\u003eWhether friends may attend, whether a visitation room will operate, and visitation hours\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Category\"\u003eFuneral without a visitation room\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What it generally means\"\u003eA funeral without a room for receiving visitors\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check\"\u003eWhere the deceased will be kept, participation in placing the deceased in the coffin, time to say goodbye, and the transport schedule\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Category\"\u003ePublic funeral support\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What it generally means\"\u003eA system through which a local government supports funerals for eligible people\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check\"\u003eEligibility, what is covered, and decisions made by the responsible department\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/tbody\u003e\n\u003c/table\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eCalling a funeral a family funeral does not automatically exclude friends. A funeral without a visitation room does not mean every funeral procedure is omitted. Before signing a contract, check each part of the farewell you want.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePlacing the deceased in the coffin is a funeral procedure. The funeral departure is when the deceased is taken from the funeral venue. Whether a visitation room will operate and how these procedures will be arranged are separate matters to discuss.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#changes-shown-by-japans-family-funeral-survey\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"changes-shown-by-japans-family-funeral-survey\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eChanges shown by Japan’s family funeral survey\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFamily funerals were the most common type in a 2026 private survey in Japan. In Kamakura Shinsho’s (鎌倉新書) survey, they accounted for \u003cstrong\u003e47.0%\u003c/strong\u003e. This is the share of funerals held by survey respondents.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"overflow-x-auto\"\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\n\u003cthead\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eSurvey year\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eShare of family funerals\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003ePoint to keep in mind\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/thead\u003e\n\u003ctbody\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Survey year\"\u003e2024\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Share of family funerals\"\u003e50.0%\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Point to keep in mind\"\u003eA private Japanese survey of people with experience as chief mourners\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Survey year\"\u003e2026\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Share of family funerals\"\u003e47.0%\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Point to keep in mind\"\u003eA follow-up in the same survey series\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/tbody\u003e\n\u003c/table\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe 2026 survey had 2,000 valid responses. Respondents were aged at least 40 and had served as chief mourners or had comparable experience within the past two years. The survey ran from February 27 to March 3, 2026. The results were released on May 12, 2026.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe share of family funerals fell by 3.0 percentage points between the two surveys. That differs from the claim that family funerals are continuing to increase. It is not a basis for predicting that Korea will follow the same path.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe survey cannot establish that large funeral halls have disappeared in Japan. It is also difficult to explain funeral choices through a single national characteristic. Changes in who attends and changes in the funeral facility industry need to be examined separately.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#the-difference-between-solitary-deaths-and-unclaimed-deaths\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"the-difference-between-solitary-deaths-and-unclaimed-deaths\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eThe difference between solitary deaths and unclaimed deaths\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eA solitary death is a concept related to social isolation during a person’s life. An unclaimed death is a term used in the context of identifying relatives and handling arrangements after death. The categories can overlap, but they are not the same count.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"overflow-x-auto\"\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\n\u003cthead\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eCategory\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eMain consideration\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eInterpretation to avoid\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/thead\u003e\n\u003ctbody\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Category\"\u003eSolitary death\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Main consideration\"\u003eDeath in a state of social isolation, cut off from people around the person\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Interpretation to avoid\"\u003eEvery death of someone who lived alone\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Category\"\u003eUnclaimed death\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Main consideration\"\u003eCircumstances after death, such as having no relatives or relatives who cannot be identified\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Interpretation to avoid\"\u003eOnly people with no biological family at all\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Category\"\u003eChoice of a family funeral\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Main consideration\"\u003eA decision about who attends the funeral\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Interpretation to avoid\"\u003eEvidence of broken family ties or social isolation\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/tbody\u003e\n\u003c/table\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eAccording to a Ministry of Health and Welfare survey, there were \u003cstrong\u003e3,924\u003c/strong\u003e solitary deaths in 2024. This is not the number of unclaimed deaths. The same count can be found in a 2026 policy analysis by the Korea Institute for Health and Social Affairs.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSeoul City’s funeral support guidance also covers cases in which bereaved family members refuse to claim the deceased’s body. This means public funeral support may be needed even when family members exist. But not every refusal can be explained by financial poverty.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eBefore stating the proportion of unclaimed decedents who have family members, the scope of the count must be checked. The denominator can differ by year and region. The unsourced figure of “7 out of 10” is difficult to use as the current nationwide proportion.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#public-funeral-support-and-conditions-for-friends-to-take-part\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"public-funeral-support-and-conditions-for-friends-to-take-part\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003ePublic funeral support and conditions for friends to take part\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003ePublic funeral support is a system through which local governments support funerals for people who meet their criteria. Seoul City publishes information on support for unclaimed decedents and others. Specific eligibility and support arrangements must be checked against the rules in the relevant area.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe following is from Seoul City’s “Funeral Support for Unclaimed Decedents” guidance.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cblockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eWe provide prescribed funeral arrangements for deceased people who have no relatives or whose relatives cannot be identified.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003c/blockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eSeoul City’s guidance was revised on March 26, 2026. Support includes placing the deceased in the coffin, transportation, cremation, placement of the remains, and funeral rites. The points of contact are the responsible district office department and the Public Funeral Counseling and Support Center.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#can-someone-other-than-a-family-member-lead-a-funeral\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"can-someone-other-than-a-family-member-lead-a-funeral\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eCan someone other than a family member lead a funeral?\u003c/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFriends and others connected to an unclaimed decedent may be allowed to lead the funeral rites under certain conditions. The legal basis is Article 12(2) of the Act on Funeral Services, Etc. This can be checked through the Ministry of Government Legislation’s Easy-to-Find Practical Legal Information service.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe guidance lists the following relationships.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSomeone who had a long-term, ongoing friendship with the deceased during their lifetime\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSomeone who took part in religious activities or social solidarity activities with the deceased\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eSomeone the deceased designated during their lifetime in a signed document or a legally valid will\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eHaving one of these relationships does not automatically grant authority to lead the funeral. The provision says a local government may allow such a person to lead the funeral rites. If you wish to take responsibility for the funeral, ask the responsible local department how to verify your relationship.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe title “honorary chief mourner” alone does not establish legal authority. Taking the role of chief mourner at a memorial event is different from being officially designated. For an actual case, check the process for designating the person responsible for the funeral.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#the-role-and-limits-of-online-remembrance\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"the-role-and-limits-of-online-remembrance\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eThe role and limits of online remembrance\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eOnline remembrance lets people share memories without gathering in person. The Ministry of Health and Welfare has operated an online remembrance and graveside visit service. Its functions are described in a 2021 policy notice.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe notice at the time included features for uploading photos and memorial videos. It also described voice message recording and sharing among family members. This establishes that the service existed.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThe existence of a service, however, does not establish that its use is widespread. A claim that metaverse graveside visits are common practice also needs separate evidence. Before using the service, check eHaneul’s current service guidance.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePeople who cannot attend in person: discuss ways to share memories online\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eRecords the family will leave together: decide how to store photos, recordings, and letters\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eAccess: distinguish materials shared within the family from those made public\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ul\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#common-mistakes-when-deciding-on-a-funeral\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"common-mistakes-when-deciding-on-a-funeral\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eCommon mistakes when deciding on a funeral\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIt is common to hear the name of a funeral type and make mistaken assumptions about its cost and procedures. “Family funeral” and “funeral without a visitation room” are not substitutes for an itemized quote. You need to check whether the ceremonies you want are included.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"overflow-x-auto\"\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\n\u003cthead\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eCommon assumption\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eWhat to check or correct\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/thead\u003e\n\u003ctbody\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Common assumption\"\u003eA family funeral has no visitation room\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check or correct\"\u003eWho attends and whether a visitation room operates are separate matters\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Common assumption\"\u003eA funeral without a visitation room has no farewell ceremony\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check or correct\"\u003eHow participation in placing the deceased in the coffin and time to say goodbye will actually be arranged\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Common assumption\"\u003eA small funeral has a fixed total cost\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check or correct\"\u003eWhat is included or excluded for keeping the deceased, transportation, supplies, and other items\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Common assumption\"\u003eA solitary death is necessarily an unclaimed death\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check or correct\"\u003eThe difference between social isolation and identifying relatives\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Common assumption\"\u003ePublic funeral support is the same nationwide\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check or correct\"\u003eThe relevant local government’s eligibility and support criteria\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Common assumption\"\u003eA friend immediately gains the authority of chief mourner\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to check or correct\"\u003eThe conditions and administrative process for designating the person responsible for the funeral\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/tbody\u003e\n\u003c/table\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you are preparing a funeral, check the following in order.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCheck any wishes or funeral instructions the deceased left.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDiscuss who will attend and how the visitation room will operate with family members and other relevant people.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eDecide which ceremonies to retain, then request an itemized quote.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eIf public support is needed, consult the relevant local government first.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eClearly state the confirmed visitation hours and who may attend in the funeral notice.\u003c/li\u003e\n\u003c/ol\u003e\n\u003ch2\u003e\n\u003ca href=\"#how-to-decide-separately-who-attends-and-who-can-take-part-in-mourning\" class=\"anchor\" id=\"how-to-decide-separately-who-attends-and-who-can-take-part-in-mourning\"\u003e\u003c/a\u003eHow to decide separately who attends and who can take part in mourning\u003c/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eDeciding to limit attendance and deciding how to give people a chance to remember the deceased are separate matters. This is a practical way to consider family funerals alongside online remembrance. Even if you choose a small funeral, you can discuss separately how people close to the deceased can take part.\u003c/p\u003e\n\u003cdiv class=\"overflow-x-auto\"\u003e\u003ctable\u003e\n\u003cthead\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eDecision\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003cth\u003eWhat to discuss\u003c/th\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/thead\u003e\n\u003ctbody\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Decision\"\u003eIn-person attendance\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to discuss\"\u003eWho will join in placing the deceased in the coffin or at the farewell\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Decision\"\u003eFuneral notice\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to discuss\"\u003eWho to notify before the funeral and who to inform afterward\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Decision\"\u003eMemorial records\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to discuss\"\u003eHow to collect photos and memories of the deceased\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003ctr\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"Decision\"\u003eResponsibilities\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003ctd data-label=\"What to discuss\"\u003eWho will handle contact, administrative consultations, and the memorial\u003c/td\u003e\n\u003c/tr\u003e\n\u003c/tbody\u003e\n\u003c/table\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eIf you want to leave funeral wishes, be more specific than “keep it simple.” You can state separately whether you want a visitation room. Also record whom you would like to say goodbye with. Keep in mind, however, that a record of your wishes is different from legally designating the person responsible for the funeral.\u003c/p\u003e\n","tags":["Decision Making","funeral culture","publicly funded funerals"],"faqs":[{"question":"Do a family funeral and a funeral without a visitation room mean the same thing?","answer":"No. A family funeral is one where attendance centers on family and people close to them. A funeral without a visitation room does not provide a room for mourners to pay their respects."},{"question":"Can friends attend a family funeral?","answer":"Yes, depending on whom the bereaved family has invited. Do not assume that only relatives can attend just because it is called a family funeral. It is best to check the instructions in the funeral notice."},{"question":"Does a funeral without a visitation room also omit placing the deceased in the coffin or a farewell ceremony?","answer":"The name alone does not determine whether those ceremonies are omitted. Check the arrangements for attending the placing of the deceased in the coffin and for saying goodbye. Discuss the details of the funeral with the person in charge."},{"question":"Does a small funeral always cost less?","answer":"It is difficult to judge the total cost from the size of the funeral alone. Check which services and items will actually be used, such as mortuary storage, transport of the body, and supplies. Compare what is included in the estimate with what will be charged separately."},{"question":"Is the proportion of family funerals in Japan continuing to rise?","answer":"In Kamakura Shinsho's survey, it fell from 50.0% in 2024 to 47.0% in 2026. Family funerals were still the most common type in 2026. However, these are results from a private sample survey in Japan."},{"question":"How does a solitary death differ from an unclaimed death?","answer":"Solitary death is a concept related to social isolation during a person's lifetime. Unclaimed death is used in the context of identifying next of kin and making arrangements after death. The two categories can overlap, but they are not the same."},{"question":"Can someone qualify for public funeral support even if they have family?","answer":"Seoul's guidance also includes cases where bereaved family members refuse to take custody of the body. It also addresses the next of kin of low-income residents who lack the means to arrange a funeral. Check with the relevant local government to determine whether someone qualifies for support."},{"question":"Can a friend arrange the funeral of someone who dies without next of kin?","answer":"Under certain conditions, someone who had an ongoing close relationship with the deceased during their lifetime may do so. Regulations allow a local government to let such a person lead the funeral rites. Being a friend does not automatically grant that authority."},{"question":"Where should I ask about public funerals?","answer":"Contact the department responsible for funeral support in the relevant city, county, or district. Seoul directs inquiries to the relevant district department and the public funeral consultation and support center. Check the local requirements for eligibility and necessary documents."},{"question":"Are online memorial services actually available?","answer":"The Ministry of Health and Welfare provides information about its online memorial and grave-visitation service. Its 2021 guidance described features such as photos, videos, and voice messages. Check the e하늘 guidance for features currently available."}],"sources":[{"url":"https://news.seoul.go.kr/welfare/archives/48534","title":"Seoul Metropolitan Government, Funeral Support for People Without Next of Kin, updated March 26, 2026","type":"source"},{"url":"https://www.easylaw.go.kr/CSP/CnpClsMain.laf?ccfNo=1\u0026cciNo=1\u0026cnpClsNo=1\u0026csmSeq=1811","title":"Easy-to-Find Legal Information for Everyday Life, Funeral Procedures and Those Responsible for Funerals","type":"source"},{"url":"https://www.kamakura-net.co.jp/newstopics/12326/","title":"Kamakura Shinsho, 7th Nationwide Survey on Funerals, released May 12, 2026","type":"data_point"},{"url":"https://www.jili.or.jp/lifeplan/houseeconomy/836.html","title":"Japan Institute of Life Insurance, Types and Costs of Funerals Based on the 2024 Funeral Survey","type":"data_point"},{"url":"https://www.kihasa.re.kr/api/kihasa/file/download?seq=32459","title":"Korea Institute for Health and Social Affairs, Outlook and Challenges for Social Security Policy in 2026: Focusing on Income Security and Vulnerable Groups","type":"data_point"},{"url":"https://m.korea.kr/briefing/pressReleaseView.do?newsId=156655310\u0026pWise=mSub\u0026pWiseSub=C1","title":"Ministry of Health and Welfare, Announcement of the Results of the 2024 Survey on People Who Died Alone, October 17, 2024","type":"source"},{"url":"https://www.korea.kr/news/policyNewsView.do?newsId=148882811","title":"Korea Policy Briefing, Ministry of Health and Welfare Offers Online Memorial and Grave-Visiting Services for the Lunar New Year Holiday, 2021","type":"source"}],"images":[{"id":1869,"url":"https://injoys.com/rails/active_storage/blobs/proxy/eyJfcmFpbHMiOnsiZGF0YSI6Mjg4MTIsInB1ciI6ImJsb2JfaWQifX0=--d7220eccb447f007ecc0e67d50ffaa63c058385e/ai-af2cb177.webp","is_representative":true,"generation_method":"ai_photo","license":"ai_generated","mime_type":"image/webp","width":1536,"height":1024,"translations":{"ko":{"alt":"검은 정장을 입은 남성이 추모단에 흰 국화를 놓고, 뒤에서 두 사람이 지켜본다.","caption":"고인과 지속적인 친분이 있었다면 혈연이 아니어도 조건에 따라 장례의식을 주관할 수 있습니다.","description":null},"en":{"alt":"A man in a black suit lays a white chrysanthemum at a memorial altar as two mourners stand behind him.","caption":"Someone with a lasting bond to the deceased may, under certain conditions, lead funeral rites even without a family tie.","description":null},"ja":{"alt":"黒いスーツの男性が祭壇に白い菊を供え、後ろに二人の参列者が立っている。","caption":"故人と継続的な親交があった人は、血縁がなくても条件によって葬儀を執り行えます。","description":null},"es":{"alt":"Un hombre de traje negro coloca un crisantemo blanco en un altar funerario ante otros dos asistentes.","caption":"Una persona con un vínculo duradero con el fallecido puede dirigir los ritos funerarios bajo ciertas condiciones, aunque no sea familiar.","description":null},"id":{"alt":"Pria berjas hitam meletakkan krisan putih di altar peringatan, sementara dua pelayat berdiri di belakangnya.","caption":"Orang yang memiliki hubungan dekat dan berkelanjutan dengan mendiang dapat memimpin upacara pemakaman jika memenuhi syarat, meski bukan kerabat.","description":null},"pt":{"alt":"Um homem de terno preto deposita um crisântemo branco num altar funerário, com duas pessoas atrás dele.","caption":"Quem mantinha uma relação próxima e duradoura com a pessoa falecida pode, sob certas condições, conduzir os ritos fúnebres mesmo sem parentesco.","description":null},"zh-hant":{"alt":"一名身穿黑色西裝的男子將白菊放在靈壇上，身後站著兩名弔唁者。","caption":"與逝者長期保持親近關係的人，即使沒有血緣關係，也可能在符合條件時主持喪禮。","description":null},"de":{"alt":"Ein Mann im schwarzen Anzug legt eine weiße Chrysantheme am Traueraltar nieder; zwei Trauernde stehen hinter ihm.","caption":"Menschen mit einer dauerhaften engen Bindung zum Verstorbenen können unter bestimmten Voraussetzungen auch ohne Verwandtschaft die Trauerfeier leiten.","description":null}}},{"id":1870,"url":"https://injoys.com/rails/active_storage/blobs/proxy/eyJfcmFpbHMiOnsiZGF0YSI6Mjg4MTQsInB1ciI6ImJsb2JfaWQifX0=--706ba51e950df269032eff56474d83f8da5994e1/ai-33dad269.webp","is_representative":false,"generation_method":"ai_semi","license":"ai_generated","mime_type":"image/webp","width":1536,"height":1024,"translations":{"ko":{"alt":"화장장 입구에서 검은 옷을 입은 남녀가 서 있고, 직원이 관을 운구한다.","caption":"가족장은 장례 참석 범위를 줄이는 방식입니다.","description":null},"en":{"alt":"A woman and man in dark clothing stand outside a crematorium as an attendant wheels a coffin inside.","caption":"A family funeral limits the number of people attending.","description":null},"ja":{"alt":"火葬場の入口で黒い服の男女が立ち、係員が棺を運び入れている。","caption":"家族葬は葬儀の参列者を少人数に絞る方式です。","description":null},"es":{"alt":"Una mujer y un hombre vestidos de oscuro esperan mientras un empleado lleva un ataúd al crematorio.","caption":"El funeral familiar reduce el grupo de asistentes.","description":null},"id":{"alt":"Seorang perempuan dan laki-laki berpakaian gelap berdiri saat petugas membawa peti jenazah ke krematorium.","caption":"Pemakaman keluarga membatasi jumlah orang yang hadir.","description":null},"pt":{"alt":"Uma mulher e um homem vestidos de preto aguardam enquanto um funcionário leva um caixão ao crematório.","caption":"O funeral familiar limita o número de participantes.","description":null},"zh-hant":{"alt":"一對身穿深色衣服的男女站在火葬場入口，工作人員正推著棺木入內。","caption":"家族葬是縮小葬禮出席範圍的方式。","description":null},"de":{"alt":"Eine Frau und ein Mann in dunkler Kleidung stehen vor einem Krematorium, während ein Mitarbeiter einen Sarg hineinbringt.","caption":"Eine Familienbestattung begrenzt den Kreis der Teilnehmenden.","description":null}}}],"published_at":"2026-10-16T09:19:44+09:00","updated_at":"2026-10-16T09:19:44+09:00","license":"cc_by","translation_status":"reviewed","available_locales":["ko","en","ja","es"],"data_locales":["ko","en","ja","es","id","pt","zh-hant","de"],"url":"https://injoys.com/en/articles/funeral-culture-family-funerals-and-public-support"}